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Deaf since
birth, Ryan Duchoeny, eight, had never heard a cat meow, popcorn popping on
the stove - or the sound of his mother’s voice saying, "I love
you." Then an amazing device - and an outpouring of love - made the
little boy’s world come alive |
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Well,
technically, I guess I still am deaf but I don’t feel that way Because now I
have something amazing in my ear It’s a tiny thing, but you wouldn’t believe
what it can do! No one knows how I got deaf Maybe I was born that way or maybe I lost my hearing gradually |
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“It feels like I’m in a whole new world,” says Ryan,
with his Dad and Mom. |
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“Now I can
hear!” |
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I only know the story about the balloon. Mom and Dad were having a party
I was 18 months old, sitting in my high chair; when, all of a sudden, a
balloon burst behind me. Bam!
Everyone jumped—except me. I just sat there like nothing had happened. Mom has told this story a
bazillion times, but still, whenever she gets to the balloon part, something
weird happens. For a split second, her face crumples. It just kind of falls.
Most people wouldn’t even notice-but I see it every time. Anyway,
that’s when she and Dad found out I was deaf They took me to doctors and I
got hearing aids, but still I couldn’t hear But Mom says I talked to her and
Dad by using my own made-up sign language—like pointing to the fridge, then
to my mouth if I was hungry. I also learned how to read
lips. Dad brags about how good I was, but really, anyone could do it. I mean,
if you look
really closely at people when they talk, you see words. |
Implant—they said I was too old. My lip
began to tremble, and even though I tried to stop them, tears fell. “It’s not
right,” Dad kept saying. “He’s just
a child,” Mom cried. I hated seeing them so sad. Wiping my face, I tapped Mom
on the leg. “It’s okay,” I signed. Well, that made her cry even
more. Kneeling before me, her lips parted, her tongue touched the roof of her
mouth, her lips formed a little “o.” “I love you,”
she said. The next day, Mom and Dad made phone calls, wrote
letters, sent e-mails. “We’re going to fight this,” Dad explained to me. But still, the government
said no. So Dad called the local
radio station and told them what was going on. Next thing I knew, reporters
were at our house. I was in the newspaper—and on TV! Then one
day, a pile of letters came to our house. Mom looked confused as she flipped
through them. “I don’t know any of these people,” she signed to me. |
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Like at night, when Mom would tuck me in,
she’d part her lips, touch her tongue to the roof of her mouth, then |
In every letter, there was money! For Ryan’s
operation, they said |
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form a little “o” with her lips. “I love you,” she was
saying. When I got older, I went to a school for
deaf kids and learned sign language. My parents did, too. Trouble is, |
When she opened one of them,
something fluttered to the floor. I ran to pick it up. It was a hundred
dollar bill! Mom gasped. She opened another
envelope, then another. In each was more money! For Ryan, the letters said. “Why are they doing this?” I
signed. Tears rolled down Mom’s
cheeks. “Because they are good,” she signed back. The letters kept coining. All together, people sent
us $40,000! It was enough for me to have the operation! So we flew
to a hospital in the A month later, the doctor
checked to see if the implant was okay When he turned it on, I heard
beep-bob-bop . . . eeeee . . . wooooo
. . . Then there was a rumbling. Looking up,
I saw that it was coming from Dad’s face and from Mom’s. It was their voices!
There was a
chalkboard in the room, and I quickly drew a picture of a kid with a balloon
coming out of his mouth. Inside the balloon, I wrote, Now I can hear! Thank you! Mom
cried. I've had my
cochlear implant for a year now I wear a little box on my belt that connects
to the wires in my head. It looks kind of like a CD player, and Dad bought me
a real CD player, too, so I could hear music. It was
weird at first. Everything made a sound. I found out that rain goes pit, pit,
pit when it hits my window Books go whooosh when
you turn pages. A metal bowl goes clang when you hit it with a spoon. And I found
out that when Mom parts her lips, touches her tongue to the roof of her
mouth, and forms a little “o” with her lips, that “I love you” sounds as
wonderful as her arms make me feel. Thanks to a
speech teacher, I’ve learned how to talk and can tell Mom I love her, too.
She always gets the same look on her face when I say it. Oh, not the crumpled
one. That look is gone. She smiles! That’s the best part about having a
cochlear implant—seeing Mom smile! —Ryan Duchoeny, as told to Deanna Pease |
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I was so excited! What does the world sound like? I wondered |
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not everyone knows sign language. So I tried to talk. “Hi,”
I’d say to the neighborhood kids. “Can I play with you?” But it just sounded like a lot of strange noises. Mom
would try to translate—but the kids were like, ‘Um . . . gotta
go.” “It’s
okay,” Mom would sign. “You’ve got lots of friends at school.” But
remember that crumpled look I told you about? The one she tried to hide?
Well, she’d get that look. And I have to admit,
some- times I’d get it, too. But
then, when I was eight, we went to a convention for deaf people, and there
was a boy who had a tiny thing in his ear It was connected by wires to a
little box on his be lt. “Does that make you hear?” I signed. Yep,
he nodded. I couldn’t believe it! “What
does the world sound like?” I signed again. He kind of
laughed before answering, “Wonderful.” Wow! I thought. I
guess Mom and Dad thought the same thing, because
they took me to some doctors. After a bunch of tests on my ears, the doctors
were smiling. So were Mom and Dad. “Would you like a cochlear implant?” Dad
signed to me. That’s what that thing the boy had was called. “Yes!”
I signed back. “Yes, yes!” I was so excited. Riding my bike around the
neighborhood, I’d wonder, Do trees make sounds? What does a soccer ball sound
like when it skitters across the street? What does Mom sound like when she
laughs? I couldn’t wait to find out. But
then the letter came. “They turned us down,” Dad signed while Mom burst into
tears. You see, we live in |
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